The Truth About Changing Negative People – It’s not what you think

One of the most common questions I hear is: “How do I get the negative people in my life to be more positive?” You know the ones – frustrating coworkers, unhappy customers, pessimistic [...]

Holiday gatherings can be wonderful… and also surprisingly triggering. We may love our families, but they often have a special talent for activating the parts of us we thought we had under [...]

The most common question I get after my talks on positivity is: “Okay… but how do I make the other people in my life more positive?” You might be thinking of your boss. Your partner. A coworker. [...]

I often think of positivity as smiling, staying calm, and keeping the peace. But I’m learning how sometimes, the most positive thing I can do isn’t quiet or gentle — it’s speaking up. [...]

A few months ago, my girlfriends invited me on a fun adventure—dinner and a movie. Girls’ night out! I was so excited. I could already picture myself laughing, relaxing, and enjoying the evening. [...]

The first time (and only time) I went white-water rafting, I remember gripping the paddle so tightly my knuckles turned white. The rapids looked wild, the rocks menacing. (I’m the one in [...]

Have you ever been driving down the road on a beautiful sunny day, taking in the scenery, when suddenly—splat!—a bug smashes right into your windshield? Or maybe several bugs? It’s gross, it’s [...]

Most of us already know how increasing our positivity can boost our mood, improve our relationships, and help us navigate tough times with a bit more grace. But here’s something we don’t often [...]

Joe. Good-natured, smiles in the hallway—and yet in our team meetings, he became someone else. He challenged every idea I presented. Every. Single. Time. He was the boss of several people on my [...]

Let’s be honest—we all want to feel seen, appreciated, and loved. Sometimes it’s the praise we never got. Or the hug we needed but didn’t receive. Or those kind, supportive words we hoped someone [...]